Some inspiring words by Miles Carter

If you decide to love someone, surrender your heart

Remove the guards and relinquish their shields

You need to feel this thoroughly

'Cause love was never meant to be safe or measured

So love irrationnally.

Jump of a cliff without considering consequences

Love specifically.

Pay attention to the smaller details of the bigger picture

Love unconditionally.

Because there will be days when you don't like her

But love must remain 

And in the event that love breaks you,

Let it break.

Do not close yourself off or shut yourself down

Your heart will be shaped and reshaped

But in the end, it will still be yours

As humans, we are blessed with the skill of adaptation

It kept us here for eons

You will adapt.

And if you decide to leave someone

Know that it won't be easy

Because losing someone isn't instant

It happens every morning you wake up thinking of them

And every night you fall asleep missing ther warmth

You will lose them over and over again

Until you are done with it.

So admit to this, knowing it's okay to leave someone you love.

Nostalgia is a liar in how it montages our best memories while omitting our  truths

And the truth is

Not every experience is meant to last forever,

No one is entitled to any part of you for any more time than you comfortable sharing yourself

So be selfish.

You are a universe inside of a vessel

And not everyone is worthy of the experience that is you

You are not obligated to keep anyone in your life

So learn to experience fully,

And know when to let go.

And if you decide to stay

Let it be a mutual love that keeps you here

Do not sacrifice your own peace for the happiness of another in fear of hurting them

The will hurt, and they will heal

Just as you will hurt, you will find yourself lost in a world without them

But you will heal.

And in time, you will realize

You are living without the one you thought you couldn't live without.